My favorite great uncle was Aaron Treadwell Gould (1883-1973), named after his grandfather and uncle, both Aaron Treadwell. I would often see him at my grandparents’ house at 92 Monte Vista Avenue in Ridgewood. He lived in the village and came over to join us in a game of croquet on the back lawn followed by lemonade on the porch. With snow white hair and twinkling blue eyes, Aaron was quiet and soft-spoken, always interested in what others had to say, and had a quick smile.
Born in Bayonne, he was one of seven children of George Henry and Selina (Treadwell) Gould. He grew up in a large house on Avenue C. His father was a banker and his mother was active in the Methodist Church up the street.
The family valued education, because Aaron and several siblings attended The Hasbrouk Institute in Jersey City, a challenging private school.
My mother gave me several medals that Aaron earned at The Hasbrouk Institute, class of 1898. An article in the Jersey City News on 14 June 1898, reported he had the top grades in his graduating class.
Aaron graduated from Amherst College in Massachusetts in 1903. He was a member of the Chi Psi fraternity.
After graduation, he returned to Bayonne. As the Chi PSi Purple and Gold Vol 19 reports: “Aaron T. Gould is in the grocery business in Bayonne NJ.”
Soon he joined his father in banking. Aaron worked as assistant treasurer at the Fifth Ward Savings Bank, in Jersey City. Aaron took over his father’s position as treasurer after his death in 1940.
On Sept. 18 1909, he married Dorothea Lathbury (1885-1955) in East Norwich, Long Island. They had met in Bayonne, where Dorothea was a teacher. Her adoptive father, Reverend Albert Lathbury, married them in the Wesley Methodist Episcopal Church. According to the Brooklyn Daily Eagle, 20 Sep. 1909, the newlyweds took the evening train to Washington DC for a honeymoon.
The couple lived in Bayonne, and then settled at 35 Woodside Avenue in Ridgewood, NJ, in 1930. They had one daughter, Louise Gould Gray. Louise would go on to graduate from Mount Holyoke College, work in publishing in New York City, and then follow the family footsteps to become a banker in NJ.
Dorothea died in 1955. Aaron moved into the nice yellow house at 386 Glenwood Road with Louise and her husband, Bill Gray.
But during the 1940s and 1950s, he was a leader in the men’s club at the Westside Presbyterian Church in Ridgewood, also attended by his brother J.H. Gould’s family. Aaron and his family sometimes summered in Asbury Park.
For several years, after Louise left home, Aaron and Dorothea wintered in Manhattan. The winter of 1940, they spent at the Gramercy Park Hotel, an elegant building in the heart of the city. When the 1940 census takers came knocking, Aaron was listed as a tenant at the hotel.
I imagine he and Dorothea had a wonderful winter in the city.